Every year of my childhood (to include the first couple years of college) my parents would have us sit down and write out a Christmas wish list just before the Christmas season hit. I'm sure that's fairly typical. Anyway, from as young as I can remember, all the way up until my parents' divorce (I was in High School), a baby sister was ALWAYS at the very top of my list. I understood the companionship and camaraderie that comes with having a sibling of the same gender.
Even though
I never got a sister (biologically), I can now enjoy watching the deep friendship that is growing within my boys. They are seriously best buddies! For the most part, they are really good at playing together. Darren is pretty good at trying to include Joseph in what he's doing, and loves to walk around the house holding his hand. Whenever I tell the boys we're going to go somewhere or do something, Darren nearly always asks: "Joseph too?!" When I say yes, Darren responds with "Hooray!" and runs to tell Joseph what's going on. When Joseph says his prayers, he has to repeat that he's thankful for Darren at least 3 times before he's satisfied. No one else gets that kind of mention!
I love watching my boys interact and play together! Here's a pic of them riding on their fire engine together.
They both crawled into Darren's bed, and pretended to sleep.
Both are in the tent, though you can't see Joseph. D must be a pretty lucky boy to have a Thomas tent over his bed!
Joseph became quite proficient at climbing out of his crib, so on his 18 month birthday (Saturday), we converted his crib into a toddler bed.
Climbing in over the rails is a trick he learned from his brother.
Checking out his "new" bed.
The first night of Joseph's new freedom, it took them both over an hour to fall asleep. They kept playing, laughing, giggling, singing, squealing, and having a good ol' time. Eventually, they quieted down. We checked on them a little while later, and when Matt and I walked into their room, this is how they had fallen asleep.
I love how my boys are such great buddies. I hope it sticks - forever! There's nothing like a brother to be your best buddy!